3 At the same time, pray also for us, that God may open to us a door for the word, to declare the mystery of Christ, on account of which I am in prison— 4 that I may make it clear, which is how I ought to speak.
5 Walk in wisdom toward outsiders, making the best use of the time. 6 Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person.
Today’s Wednesday word comes from chapter 4 of Colossians; a relatively short letter within the New Testament.
Verse 3 states to ‘pray for us’. A simple observation and challenge here would be to ask: how often do we pray for others in general? And for fellow believers and ministers in particular? I think the latter is in view here; Paul himself being a minister of the gospel and his focus here, as verse 3 goes on to make clear, is to pray for those who ‘declare the mystery of Christ’.
Side note here: what is ‘prayer’? At our local church, the suggested method of prayer involves 4…ingredients…if you will. And it’s not specific to this church as I’ve seen the “A.C.T.S” method elsewhere. Adoration, Confession, Thanksgiving, and Supplication. It’s a great way for a believer to fully immerse themselves in prayer. Adoration, we focus upon who we are praying to: the God of the Bible (revealed in both Old & New Testaments). Thanks to the Bible, believers do not pray to an ‘unknown god’ for the Lord has made himself known and knowable, loving and lovable, approaching and approachable, true and trustworthy, merciful and forgiving, just and justifying. That in and of itself is enough to worship Him for eternity. Where are we seeing the Lord in our day to day lives? In a sunrise or sunset, in the changing of the seasons (slow as it may be since the 90-degree weather is quite stubborn around these parts). In a situation that once seemed hopeless but has now been redeemed. A great emphases of adoration should always be the cross for the Christian. I like what the song says, “two wonders here I confess: my worth and my unworthiness”. Deep and profound yet altogether true when we gaze upon the cross of Jesus. Confession is an important part of prayer also, and if we are praying daily, this is a reminder that we need to confess sin daily. One consistent confession of mine is actually dealt with in verse 5 above, that I fail to make the ‘best use of the time’. Part of being wise in general is to realize that we’re not upon this planet forever. Sure, we get reminders in the peripheral of our lives when a family member passes or a random person on Facebook passes that maybe we heard of or knew somewhat but not too intimately. However, if I’m being honest, I don’t live like that; I don’t live like my days are numbered, as the Scriptures also teach. And when I don’t grasp that concept, I fail to live life in a way that glorifies the Lord and actually end up living life as if I am the lord of my life. I merely assume that, today is another day and tomorrow will be the same. And, oh yeah, next month I’ll get to do this or that. But scriptures teach not to think or live like this. Instead, we should say ‘if the Lord wills” I will do this or that. This perspective acknowledges that the Lord is the one who numbers my days and the one who formed me and the one that I’m returning to one day. And this changes how I walk. But to get back to confession, if I’m being truthful – I don’t consider the Lord when I first wake up. Or throughout my day. Or during the night. And I confess that and try again, by His grace.
Thanksgiving is not merely a holiday in November – it should be a normal part of prayer. Reverse the term and it is what it says it is: giving thanks. Lord, thank you for your blessings: a wife, a family, a home, cars to drive, jobs to work at, for health, food in our fridge, clothes on our backs. Access to internet, access to clean water, access to healthcare. Access to coffee shops and restaurants and parks and roads. For a church to attend and believers to share life with. And this is just a start. Really- adoration and thanksgiving can be intertwined together. Adoring who God is and thankful for what God has done can be best seen in Christ himself. The God who put on flesh and then died for our sins and was raised for our life. And finally, supplication. Supplication is ‘asking for something earnestly or humbly’. Important here that this comes last in the A.C.T.S. method for prayer. Many believers, myself especially, usually begin with ‘Lord, please give me…’ or Lord be with me’ regarding a specific situation. Yet, the Scriptures teach that ‘God inhabits praise’ and Scripture also teaches that God will answer us ‘according to His will’. There’s only one way to know why we praise God and only one way to know God’s will: God’s Word. God wants us to know Him as a person Jesus and as the Spirit taking residence inside of us. He wants us to walk by faith. But back to verse 3, how can we share Christ with others if we know nothing of Him ourselves? How can we share Christ ‘clearly’? Making the ‘mystery’ of Christ clearly known? Unless we, simply put, know Jesus? So prayer is driven and informed by the Word of God. Again, we are not praying to a distant, unknown ‘god in the sky’. We are not praying to a magical slot machine that we hope will respond to us favorably today. We are praying the King of Kings and Lord of Lords whose Word is absolute truth. A Holy Spirit that makes His home inside of us, to be intimately close and near to us and to help us walk out the truth of God wisely.
Okay, so that was a long side-note, but prayer is important. Praying for ministers is important. Prayer for sheep, for faithful pastors and ministers to flourish – and for the fangs of serpents and wolves and false teachers and imposters to break and be brought to nothing. And when we are praying in God’s will – we will pray for ‘open doors’ (verse 3). This places the focus upon the Lord to lead us and not follow our own desires because, again, the Lord made us and our days are numbered. We are not here for our own desires. Goals and dreams and desires are certainly not bad things, but in the gospel we are talking about eternal impact whereas our desires, dreams, and goals change and fade with the passing of time and ultimately in the passing away of ourselves.
Also another thing to note here: Paul is in prison. He makes it plain as day: ‘to declare the mystery of Christ…on account of which I am in prison’. There is importance here. Speaking the truth, in love, will not always result in an ending that feels lovable. That’s why we have to be bold. Not that Christians seek to start a fight or argument. I’m not looking for an argument. But the truth of the gospel will square off with other, deeply-engrained belief systems. And it will offend, nearly always. To state the simple truth – you and I are not gods, we are in fact NOT in control of our own destiny. That we were made in the image of God to know God, to love Him and others, and turn away from sin to pursue a righteous life that is pleasing to our Maker – is a wonderful message to a soft heart looking for truth. But it’s also a message that tastes like spoiled milk on a 100-degree day to a heart that is hardened. It is water to a thirsty soul – it is spoiled milk to a hardened heart. And the wisdom we should possess will know how to respond to both.
Which is what verse 5 states: ‘walk in wisdom toward outsiders’. Those outside the faith. Those living with no regard for eternity. Those ensnared in the temporal pleasures of this life – in their relationships or in their schooling or work or art or entertainment or exercise or diet – or whatever else sinful flesh can find to idolize and worship. Walk in wisdom towards those who don’t know the love of God in Jesus, those who don’t have the Spirit of God living within them, those who are in essence beautiful zombies – walking through life, probably appearing quite well on the outside but dead inwardly and heading toward judgement. The link here is between unbelievers and time. Scripture tells us to use our time wisely with unbelievers. This means we make space and time and expend energy and effort, and finances even, to reach them with the gospel. This does not mean we do what unbelievers do in the hopes that we’ll have a gospel moment with them or that they will arbitrarily see Jesus in us without us ever clearly presenting the gospel to them. Romans 10:14 states “How can they believe in one of whom they have never heard? And how can they hear unless someone proclaims him? And who will go to tell them unless he is sent?” Have we been saved by Jesus? Yes. Then we have been sent by Jesus. Some to the far corners of the globe. Others to the far corners of their streets and backyards. And note – we are not proclaiming a better life on this earth. We do not proclaim ‘your best life now’. Again- Paul is writing to the Colossians while in prison. His way of life, surrendered to Christ, stands at odds with the popular message now of ‘come to Jesus and all your wildest dreams will come true.’ No one dreams of prison, of beatings, of being mocked and shamed, and ultimately of being killed. Yet, this was the fate of many early followers of Jesus. And, of course, of Jesus himself.
Lastly, verse 6 tells us to let our speech always be gracious. Always means always – no exceptions. Wow. What a timely word for our present social media culture where everyone hides behind their keyboard and tear others down in 160 characters or less. This also answers our biggest fear in evangelism. “I don’t know if I’ll know what to say.” “I don’t feel that smart beyond stating ‘Jesus loves you'”. But that’s okay. If the foundation of our speech is filled with grace it will be like salt. It will be like wind to the hearer. Sometimes wind can be such a relief like a cool breeze that sweeps through on the hottest of days. And sometimes a breeze can be so violent that it tears apart everything in its path. The gospel does both! It both refreshes and it disrupts. And having grace in mind changes how we see the one we are talking to and it also affects how we judge a conversation as ‘successful’. Even if, for example, one seems to not have the time of day to hear this gospel of Jesus, God can still take that seed and work and till it and grow it for His ultimate glory. The command is not to share Christ to be successful or to check off our ‘duty for the day’ or to put our conversions up on a poster board in our home. The command is to make Christ known, clearly, to sinners headed for judgement. And God will do the rest. But how we share Christ matters just as much as what we say in sharing Christ. It cannot be separated: we are called to 1.) share the truth and we are to share this truth 2.) in love.
Lord, open doors which I know that you will, for Christ to be made known. Work love into my heart for those who presently seem to want nothing of your love, nothing of your son. Give me a clear mind that articulates the gospel of Jesus simply and powerfully and also give me an open and bold heart to care for the one to whom I am speaking. And finally, give wisdom to always know how to respond in every interaction. May you be glorified in every interaction. Amen.